marți, 11 august 2009

Motto for goals and happiness

get inspired :)

"Write a goal every single month to eliminate a mess from your life, and when you do - abundance will come in."

Raymond Aaron
Success Coach and Speaker

"I am determined to be cheerful and happy in whatever situation I may find myself. For I have learned that the greater part of our misery or unhappiness is determined not by our circumstance but by our disposition."

Martha Washington
1732-1802, First American First Lady

Take the lesson from it and apply this lessons to your own experience. It will work if you accept this it instead of insisting and stress yourself to apply them. Let them flow!

with love ... something short for today,


sâmbătă, 8 august 2009

reasons ...

"Waiting is a trap. There will always be reasons to wait. The truth is, there are only two things in life, reasons and results, and reasons simply don't count." Dr. Robert Anthony

WAITING ... is always a solution from not achieving something or better said, for not acting. We are afraid to make the big step because we are afraid to be right. We need to make ourselves to believe that one day, some day it will come. We wait until that perfect day will come ... and when that perfect day will come, we realize it is too late. Or maybe we don´t realize it at all. People also say ... it is too late, as I recognize it in my own language and behavior. The truth is that, IT IS NEVER TOO LATE! But, we need to get the courage to simply accept that WAITING is not a choice.

I am waiting for that perfect day to say YES, I am waiting till I get the perfect job to be happy and fulfilled, I am waiting for my kids to grow up, to be able to invest time in my hobbies, I am waiting till my retirement to start getting some rest ... and so on. Let´s face it!!! We are waiting till we die and there is nothing else to do.

We don´t know what is going to happen tomorrow, so why not take profit of this first day. It is a risk, but life is suppose to be challenging and fun ... risky, too. We risk when we eat artificial things, we risk when we get on the street, never knowing if every driver is a responsible one, we risk less years from our own life when starting smoking, drinking or taking drugs ... why not taking risk to something enjoyable that brings back the FUN and HAPPINESS in our life?
REASONS ... is a way of being comfortable with your life. It is much easier to make yourself believe that there is something out there that keeps you away ... far away from achieving your dreams. This are reasons!

"The world is a great mirror. It reflects back to you what you are. If you are loving, if you are friendly, if you are helpful, the world will prove loving and friendly and helpful to you. The world is what you are." said Thomas Dreier

And if we take reasons into account ... let´s put it in this way. If you are constantly finding reasons why not acting now, that is what you will get - reasons. Start acting responsible and focus on results and you will get them.

It is not easy .. I am not saying it is, or it should be ... believe me, I know how hard it is to deal with this kind of treats ... but it is achievable and rewarding. At one point, you will see results that will motivate you go forward and forward ... till you see your dreams realizing itself.

"Be creative. Use unconventional thinking. And have the guts to carry it out." Lee Iacocca

good luck :)


miercuri, 5 august 2009

Choose ... and share!

Read this article and share your positive experience with us!
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Lesen Sie diesen Artikel und teilen Sie Ihre positive Erfahrung mit uns!
Læs denne artikel og del dine positive erfaringer med os!
¡Lea este artículo y comparta su experiencia positiva con nosotros!

"The world can change in an instant. So can the way you choose to see it. Why not choose to see the good in yourself and others." Bob Perks

We can choose how to see ourselves or others, this is completely true. See the world and people as being good and nice, peaceful and happy and you will find out that you are right regarding your vision about life. It is not a pure luck if you find good people in your life or a misfortune if you only encounter those bad ones. It’s up to you ... what do you choose to look for?

You find happiness because you are looking for it.

You find violence because you constantly choose to look for it.

Since I become aware of this fact, I decided what to look for in my life. I always choose, and in 90% of the time I receive what I am looking for. In the 10% it just came into my life and in that instant I decide if I want to give attention to it or I just refuse to give attention to what I don´t want to see, hear or experience. It´s what you choose that makes the difference, not what it comes.

I constantly refuse to watch bad news, I refuse to read negative things that happen in the world, and the best is that I always try my best in giving attention to only those things that matters to me.

People around me find me complicated and not understandable but I can understand why, if I look at their life and the results they attract in their own life.

It is no wonder that there are such horrible things happening in the world. We give attention to it and therefore we receive more of it.

We complain about the constantly bad news we see on TV, about the stupidity that is being shown on each new TV show, but we refuse to understand that we will always receive more from that thing that we are looking for. Start searching for the good news and you will receive it. Look for the good things that happen in this world, search for those people who know how to make a positive difference in this world and you will find them.

Have you ever wonder how many people have done something admirable today? Have you ever wonder how many people may have a successful story to share with you that may inspire you in the same time? Have you ever wonder how many people in this world helped somebody; did something good for somebody – just in this second? If not, is because you only choose to hear about the bad things that happen. If yes, than congratulation! I may ask you to read forward because you have something to share with us :)

Turn on the TV and you will see it, open you computer and see the first page of your bookmarked newspaper, and so on. What kind of movie have you seen lately, what kind of book have you read or what kind of story have you told to somebody lately? Is the kind of news that may inspire you or others, or maybe the one that can be projected as experience into your life? If not, choose again!

Good things, bad things, good people, bad people, good experiences, bad experiences; all this are connected. Try to search and give attention to what you want to see reflected in your experience, in your life, and you will receive more of it.

Have you done something good lately? Share your experience with us, and let others get inspired from your nice story. Write a comment about something that can inspire the readers of this blog. Let´s see how many good stories can be heard and shared. Let’s inspire others. Doesn´t matter in what language you will write, your story will inspire today somebody. I will post your story on my blog, together with your name (if you want) and a link to some other good news you want to share.

My story for today was to write this article, that I really hope, it will inspire at least one person that read it. And to get courage into writing 2 rows for us, watch this movie: Make a Difference. Good luck!!!!

I look forward for your story.

With love, Ella